Dating a girl who is not exclusive
I’ve been dating this girl now for 2 and a half months.I’ve known her all my life, since her parents and mine have been friends for over 30 years.But you’re ignoring that you DO have a problem because she’s not making you feel safe and secure.You’re trying to be a giver because that’s how you feel about her.In a weird way, when things get serious they feel more casual.When things are casual they feel more serious, if that makes sense. I knew my boyfriend and I were serious when I felt like the pressure was off.
We were so comfortable that things just 'worked' like that.She lives in NYC but is moving home to Buffalo to go to law school this July, and I’m here at medical school in Buffalo. She says she feels like she’s in more of a relationship with me then she’s felt in her past relationships, which she considered to be actual relationships.